I strongly feel that one of the great curses of much of evangelical Christianity is people feeling they have the right to tell other people what the will of the Lord is for them....
If standards are raised which are not really Scriptural, and especially if these are put forth as the spiritual standard for which we should strive, it can only lead to sorrow. if we try to have a spirituality higher than the Bible sets forth, it will always turn out to be lower.
Francis Shaeffer. Letters of Francis A. Shaeffer.